But I also know how to be a lady. I am looking for someone who can have fun with both. I enjoy a variety of activities, mostly outdoors. I also like tackling little projects around the house. Outdoor summer concerts are right up my alley. An occasional relaxing evening at home is ok too,but not normally my first choice. I like to cook, especially for someone else. My idea of a great relationship is when both sides of it enjoy doing things for the other. I'm looking for a best friend & a lover. Although, I'm not into rushing things. Finding that person that you just can't wait to see again takes time.