I have many interests and life experiences...a bit of eclectic and alternative mixed with traditional. I have always gravitated towards the "alternative" art and music scenes, but still like to bike, hike, camp, work-out,stay at home with the cats. The musician MOBY expresses many of my thoughts and feelings. The artist David Wojnarowicz painted/assembled art expressing many of my feelings and thoughts about being gay and different. The director Todd Haynes expresses many of my emotions and thoughts in his films Poison, Safe and Velvet Goldmine. I'm quiet, but I have a lot to share and I want to go below the surface with my lover. Being sex positive and the openness to experimentation is important, too.