Wow, it's so hard to know just what to say to impress someone in a few words. My experiences with all the different dating sites is that it all sounds good on 'paper' but the true test is meeting in person and seeing if that initial spark is there. It's not something you can just conjure up or force...it's either there or not. I feel like I've pretty much wasted the past 13 years searching for that special man. I've learned a lot about myself along the way and have a good idea of what I need to be happy but it's not something you can easily put into words. If there is anything in my profile that interests you just send me a reply and let's see where it leads. Good luck in your search as well!