Hi Toya, I just wanted to drop you a line to tell you to keep your head up. I am also new to this, 2 months to be exact. You are a beautiful chick, don't let this bring you down. Always  and feel good about yourself and most of all be careful.

Hello LaToya,   I just want to tell you my story.  Well I was very popular in high school but only beacuse all of my friemds looked like supermodels (although I am not ugly, I was always considered to be the ugly friend).  I met and dated some guys but I could never find one that actually liked me.  Anyway, I met a guy at my 21st birthday party and we hit it off.  We dated for several months and after 2 years, I decided that I would give him my virginity.  In return he gave me herpes.  I felt that was useless to anyone else, so I stayed with him.  Huge mistake!   Today I am a single mother of two that has no help.  I am finally realizing that life goes on after becoming positive.  My point to you is that you are beautiful black woman.  Life goes on.  Do not settle and you are making a good start by even being on this website.  I love you and please remember that you are not alone.  oxoxoxoxo